{"id":5582,"date":"2015-02-02T09:07:15","date_gmt":"2015-02-02T15:07:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lovingonme.com\/?p=5582"},"modified":"2017-04-03T10:39:10","modified_gmt":"2017-04-03T15:39:10","slug":"history-making","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/2015\/02\/02\/history-making\/","title":{"rendered":"What History Are You Making?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I can hear the tune in my soul:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople get ready. There\u2019s a train a coming. You don\u2019t need no baggage. You just get on board. All you need is faith to hear the diesels hummin&#8217;. You don\u2019t need no ticket. You just thank the Lord. People get ready for the train to Jordan. Picking up passengers coast to coast.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I can sit in silence and hear The Impressions singing that tune. It\u2019s a part of my fabric. A part of my musical DNA. It punctuates my history. Our history.<\/p>\n<p>You know, I often wonder if today\u2019s children know the difference between Black History and American History? I live in hopes that the answer is a resounding \u201cno\u201d because in reality, there isn\u2019t a difference. My history is yours and yours is mine. Our history is one. Our history is rooted in the truth, an intermingling of the achievements, failures, joys, sorrows, blood, sweat and tears of us all. It\u2019s often been said that there are three sides to every story, my side, your side and the truth. Pay no mind to attempts at distortion of our collective truths because ultimately, \u201cWhatever hurts my brother, hurts me. Whatever helps my brother, helps me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Why the word \u201ctruths\u201d versus \u201ctruth\u201d? Well, I\u2019ll tell you. Most simply stated, it\u2019s because our paths and life experiences vary. Think about your journey through life. It impacts how we each retell the story of what we\u2019ve witnessed. It also impacts our level of sympathy and whether or not we are capable of living vicariously, and seeing, through the eyes of those who exist alongside us. Let me share a few examples.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example 1:<\/strong> I\u2019ve heard accounts of history that say in 1920 &#8220;all&#8221; women were given the right to vote (and supposedly African American men even earlier). However in truth, many of us went to the polls and were not allowed to exercise that right. Backing up from there, many of us were not even allowed to register. The inspirational movie Selma documents this and gives a pretty accurate account of what transpired on the journey to true voting rights. So many of my people, OUR people (not just blacks), died to exercise the most basic of civil rights as recently as the 1960s; beaten bloody, shot, bitten by dogs and gassed for simply seeking equal rights for us all. Our nation loomed near a proverbial cliff and a change was imminent. So, why do some recognize that the barriers to voting for all African Americans weren\u2019t truly removed until the 1960s while others think it occurred in 1920? It\u2019s simple. There\u2019s a variance in truths based on the experiences of you and your family versus the experiences of others. It\u2019s difficult to teach what you didn\u2019t learn or live.<\/p>\n<p>So what brought on this imminent change in America? A tipping point is defined by Google as &#8220;the point at which a series of small changes or incidents becomes significant enough to cause a larger, more important change&#8221;. The unyielding persistence of civil rights activist, Annie Lee Cooper, Bloody Sunday, the 1968 assassinations of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and President John F. Kennedy and the eventual passage of the Voting Rights Act all edged us towards the tipping point, which shifted our society from a barrage of blatant acts to more hidden ones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example 2:<\/strong> I spent a large part of 2014 allowing frustration to settle into my spirit as I drew parallels between the Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and 60s and what we are now witnessing decades later. We reached a tipping point in 2014 with race relations in America. A dialogue that had been brewing just below the surface for decades, pierced the silence and refused to be ignored. Was it an awakening of our social consciousness? Both inspired and hesitant, proud yet afraid, of our direction as a nation leaves my soul silently humming the songs that were the soundtrack of the Civil Rights Movement. Much like the right to vote for African Americans existed on the books in the early 1900s, but didn\u2019t exist in reality for those who continued to fight for that right, Eric Garner\u2019s death has shown us that simply making something a law doesn&#8217;t make the freedom that that law provides accessible to everyone. Why the disagreement on this verdict? Again, it\u2019s a variance in your experiences and what you\u2019ve been taught.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, together, we carry on. The beauty of our struggles can be found in the diversity of the hues of faces and arms that lock up and join forces to fight for justice, equality and peace. Common raps in the song, Glory: \u201cThey marched with the torch, we gone run with it now.\u201d He says, and I agree, that \u201cThe biggest weapon is to stay peaceful.\u201d I\u2019m moved by his positioning of the inter-generational need we have for one another. Simply stated, \u201cNo one can win the war individually. It takes the wisdom of the elders and young people\u2019s energy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Example 3:<\/strong> U.S. Representative John Lewis\u2019 continued strength and presence in 2015, the shoplifted lives of Eric Garner and Trayvon Martin which will forever remain unpaid for, combine to represent today\u2019s tipping point. If you\u2019re like me, this reality makes you want to sing alongside Sam Cooke:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s been a long, long time coming, but I know a change gone come. It\u2019s been too hard living but I\u2019m afraid to die; I don\u2019t know what\u2019s up there beyond the sky. It\u2019s been a long, long time coming but I know a change gone come. Oh, yes it will.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He goes on to sing:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There\u2019s been times that I thought I couldn\u2019t last for long. But now I think I\u2019m able to carry on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Those words serve as inspiration to us all. You see, how people feel about leaders like Representative Lewis\u2019 leadership, and the great divide in how individuals felt about the verdicts handed down in the cases of the defendants of the Garner and Martin cases, is simply based on a variance in life experiences and what\u2019s been taught and handed down in generations of families.<\/p>\n<p>Despite our differences, Frankie Beverly and Maze sing, \u201cWe are one\u201d, and that my friend, is the real truth. And here we are! My spirit is so full right now; memories, the songs of a movement and Selma, a movie that reminds us of our strength and intertwined history together. You see, I saw this movie long before I saw this movie. I sat at the feet of my grandparents and great-grandparents who put the stories in my heart which became cinematography in my head.<\/p>\n<p>Now, while I recognize and respect that all people won&#8217;t feel my passion because everyone didn&#8217;t grow up the way that I did and where I did, I hope that as a people, we can fortify the value that we place on diversity for that very reason. I&#8217;m proud of my beginnings in Albany, GA. You&#8217;ll hear remnants throughout the movie about my home. That&#8217;s where Dr. King and company learned from their mistakes and reassessed the strategy which would make Selma a success. I still keep my grandfather&#8217;s mug shot from his many nights in jail because he marched for my rights and those of others. He understood that his suffering was not in vain. He knew that he and those he locked arms with, were demonstrating leadership in its purest form- influence. Their sacrifices influenced the greatest change that this nation has ever seen.<\/p>\n<p>We all come from various backgrounds, but we\u2019re locked in a symbiotic relationship, no matter our truths. What will be the chorus, refrain, bridge and melodic memories left by the hotbed of this generation\u2019s Civil Rights Movement? What will future generations read by <em>your<\/em> name in the credits? Do something to drive positive change, otherwise your silence implies consent. Continue to expand your circles to include others who don\u2019t look like you; love as if you are colorblind. We\u2019re writing history.<\/p>\n<p>In closing, the beauty of both the movie Selma and the movements that I see forming today, is the feeling of empowerment that you\u2019re left with. You don&#8217;t walk away angry. You walk away loving everyone around you. For indeed you realize that through collective action and unity is the only way that progress is probable, possible and imminent. Selma is a reflection of what it will take to overcome the modern-day injustices of 2015. Carry on the truths of our collective history as the dialogue for future generations. &#8220;Forward ever, backward never.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can hear the tune in my soul: \u201cPeople get ready. There\u2019s a train a coming. You don\u2019t need no baggage. You just get on board. All you need is faith to hear the diesels hummin&#8217;. You don\u2019t need no ticket. You just thank the Lord. People get ready for the train to Jordan. 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