{"id":533,"date":"2013-02-18T17:28:52","date_gmt":"2013-02-18T23:28:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lovingonme.com\/?p=533"},"modified":"2017-04-09T14:01:56","modified_gmt":"2017-04-09T19:01:56","slug":"what-are-we-waiting-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/2013\/02\/18\/what-are-we-waiting-for\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are We Waiting For?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/img_0311.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-534\" src=\"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/img_0311.jpg?w=225\" alt=\"Katrina Rock Climbing\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Have you noticed how much of life we spend wishing and wanting? Nearly every day we encounter something that makes us say, \u201cI always wanted to try that\u201d or \u201cI wish I could do that\u201d. It\u2019s as if we\u2019re stuck in this endless cycle of wishes and wants that we don&#8217;t ever convert into actions and achievements.<\/p>\n<p>Well this year, I\u2019ve made up my mind to just go for it \u2013 whatever \u201cit\u201d is. I\u2019m not trying to prove anything to myself or anyone else. I just want to see some of my wishes come true, before I\u2019m too old to enjoy them.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday as I was preparing for my latest adventure &#8211; rock climbing &#8211; I kept wondering why in the world did it take me so long to get to this place? I mean sure, I was a single parent, worked lots of hours, was involved in the community and had a very full life. Was it only my lack of time that kept me from trying new things? Maybe, but I doubt it.<\/p>\n<p>When my son first went off to college I had all sorts of \u201cfree time\u201d. But I didn\u2019t suddenly start doing all the things I\u2019d wanted to. No, instead the available time just became more work time; then of course I was back to not having time. Or at least, so it seemed.<\/p>\n<p>The thing I\u2019ve had to learn about time is that we all have the same amount each day. How we spend it is up to us. But most of us don\u2019t believe that. So we spend our whole lives abdicating our power to someone else, letting them determine how, when and where we spend our minutes.<\/p>\n<p>It would be a tragedy if the situation was permanent, but the truth is we can take back our power any time we please. How? By embracing and believing one empowering thought \u2013 <b>I am the CEO of me!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to grasp that at first, especially when we work for someone else. That\u2019s because in large part our boss determines our focus for our time at the job. But that is work \u2013 not life. And contrary to what society would have us believe, work and life are not equal or the same. So while there may be a CEO of the company where you work, <b>you are the CEO of your life<\/b>. Therefore, you get to decide how and where you invest your time and energy.<\/p>\n<p>I know we\u2019re all busy. Lord knows we have to make a living. But it\u2019s alright for us make up our mind to carve out some time \u2013 be it every day, every week, or just once a month &#8211; to making our own dreams come true.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t believe it can happen? Here are 4 things many of us are wishing for right now and ideas on how to make them happen.<b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<li style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<ul style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<li style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<ul style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<li style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<ul style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<li style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<ol style=\"display: inline!important;\">\n<li style=\"display: inline!important;\"><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I wish I could make a career change.<\/b> Solution: Reinvent you. I realize we\u2019re just coming out of a recession, many areas of the world have limited opportunity, and it\u2019s not easy. But you didn\u2019t wish for easy \u2013 you want change. And we all know, if we want a different life we can\u2019t keep doing the same thing. Go back to school, learn a new skill, be willing to relocate, or if you can afford it temporarily take less pay to try something new. It may take time, but you can transition.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I wish I had my own business.<\/b> Solution: Start one. Over the last 20 years I have owned 12 businesses. None made millions, but they all made me happy. Remember, it doesn\u2019t have to be THE business; just start A business. Get your feet wet before you invest your whole life savings; better yet do it while you\u2019re still living on a salary from someone else.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I wish I had more fun.<\/b> Solution: Go try something new! Life is not boring, we are. There are infinite possibilities to excite and amuse us. We simply don\u2019t go do them. Sometimes it\u2019s because we don\u2019t want to do them alone, but we can\u2019t spend our lives waiting on someone else to get on our page. Just pick something that interests you and go for it. You\u2019ll meet the people who are there doing it too and you won\u2019t be alone.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><b>I wish I could meet that special someone.<\/b> Solution: Heck, I don\u2019t know. I have friends who have met their mates on line, at the grocery store, through friends, at church, and on and on. The one thing they have in common? They were all living. No one was at home twiddling their thumbs and their mates materialized before them in a vapor. So I\u2019m going to take a page from their book and just live my life as God directs, and trust Him for the rest.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We can put just about anything on this list and come up with a solution. The point is we have the power to choose, and we have the time to make it happen. God made us creatures of free will, and gifted us with precious moments each day. We don\u2019t need more hours in the day. We just need the courage to own the minutes we have, and invest them in the things we want.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know about you, but I don\u2019t want to get to the end of my days with an endless list of wishes. I&#8217;m going for it, and I hope you are too!<\/p>\n<p>Loving on Me as I Love You! \u2764<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you noticed how much of life we spend wishing and wanting? Nearly every day we encounter something that makes us say, \u201cI always wanted to try that\u201d or \u201cI wish I could do that\u201d. 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