{"id":2513,"date":"2014-04-11T10:15:25","date_gmt":"2014-04-11T15:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lovingonme.com\/?p=2513"},"modified":"2017-05-09T18:33:22","modified_gmt":"2017-05-09T23:33:22","slug":"is-god-tapping-you-on-the-forehead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/2014\/04\/11\/is-god-tapping-you-on-the-forehead\/","title":{"rendered":"Is God Tapping You on the Forehead?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Woman-Staring.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2515\" src=\"https:\/\/lovingonme.com\/2017\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Woman-Staring.jpg\" alt=\"I'm Listening God\" width=\"300\" height=\"210\" \/><\/a>If it is to be, it is up to me!\u00a0<\/em>It&#8217;s one of my favorite quotes &#8211; short, sweet and to the point. It&#8217;s the difference between successful people, and those who spend their whole life wishing and wanting. It&#8217;s the moment when you make up your mind to get it done.<\/p>\n<p>God tapped me on the forehead about this very thing just last week when I was blessed to meet an incredible gentleman who works with young teens. His mission in life is to ensure each teen has a plan for their future, be it college or career. In his quest to reach as many as possible, he recently wrote his book.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m fascinated by this news as I have been on an amazing, humbling, exasperating journey to write a book myself. So, I immediately offer to buy a copy. Not because I have a teenager (my son is 25), but because I believe in sowing seeds in ministries God has given other people. And because, God help me, I&#8217;m going to figure out how so many other people can finish a doggone book and I have gone round and round with this one.<\/p>\n<p>As he gets ready to hand me the book he sets the stage, &#8220;Now this isn&#8217;t a big book. It&#8217;s more like a booklet.&#8221; No problem! I just want to read it. (Not to mention I&#8217;m hoping that just by holding it that the secret passageway in my brain that leads to brilliance will miraculously unlock.)<\/p>\n<p>Y&#8217;all, I got the book and was stunned. It was 35 pages&#8230;total. I didn&#8217;t even know you could print a book that small. Immediately, my &#8220;other self&#8221; kicked in.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>See God, this is not what I&#8217;m trying to do. I would never publish anything like this and put my name on it. I&#8217;ve got to have a professional look, and something that represents you (&#8230;meaning ME) better.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Right then, I felt that tap in the middle of my forehead.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Excuse me. Look down. Are you not holding his COMPLETED book? Where is yours? Still in that journal you&#8217;re carrying around. Mmm&#8230;hmm&#8230;that&#8217;s what I thought. Now be quiet and get back to work.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lord, have mercy! Here I am trying to judge someone else, and I can&#8217;t even get my own stuff together.<\/p>\n<p>I love how God gently reminds us to be about OUR business. Through completely unexpected teachable moments, he lovingly points out areas where we&#8217;re weak and redirects our energy to where He can use us the most.<\/p>\n<p>The whole week I kept thinking about why I&#8217;m so obsessed about the book being a certain way, why I had created this artificial standard I was trying to live up to. Finally it dawned on me that the reason I kept stalling was because some part of me is afraid that my new life won&#8217;t be as fabulous as my old one. You see, I was a Chief Marketing Officer. Woohoo&#8230;I mean really, people (&#8230;&#8230;meaning ME) expect more of me than others because I have already been &#8220;successful&#8221;. Once again, I got tapped on the forehead.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Girl, if all you can see is what you had then you&#8217;re not ready for where I&#8217;m trying to take you. Face forward, and keep it moving. I&#8217;ve got so much more in store!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>His message to me was so clear &#8211; Just do it! Keep taking the steps I&#8217;m laying out before you, and quit worrying about where you think you should be on the path. Stop looking for how to do it, and just do it. You&#8217;re not going to get all the answers first, and anything you can imagine for your life is way smaller than what I have planned.<\/p>\n<p>So, I&#8217;m back in motion &#8211; writing, speaking, listening and praying. I&#8217;m doing the best I can with what I&#8217;ve got. Will it be perfect? Heck no! But it will be exactly what it&#8217;s supposed to be, and for that I&#8217;m profoundly grateful.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s enough about me &#8211; let&#8217;s talk about you! Because I bet I&#8217;m not the only one who is dragging their feet because of our ego-driven pursuit of perfection. Has God been thumping you on the forehead too?<\/p>\n<p>Girl, I don&#8217;t know about you but I refuse to stay stuck in an endless circle of trying without ever reaching a triumphant end.<\/p>\n<p>You and me &#8211; let&#8217;s go on a grand adventure with God. I can&#8217;t tell you where we&#8217;ll end up, or even the next steps. But I do believe, passionately, that the ride itself will be a great reward.<\/p>\n<p>Hope to see you on the road to more than we can imagine. It&#8217;s so much more fun to travel with friends.<\/p>\n<p>Love and Blessings\u00a0\u2764<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If it is to be, it is up to me!\u00a0It&#8217;s one of my favorite quotes &#8211; short, sweet and to the point. It&#8217;s the difference between successful people, and those who spend their whole life wishing and wanting. It&#8217;s the moment when you make up your mind to get it done. 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